Life = Tension of opposites which love always win

#1 The most important thing in life is to learn how to give out love, and how to let it come in. Love is the only rational act.

#2 Always put a limit to self-pity, concentrate on the good things still in life.

#3 While we're involved in trillions of little acts just to keep going, we need to stand back, look at our lives and ask, "Is this all?"

#4 Learn how to die, and you learn how to live.

#5 Family is not just about love, but is letting others know there's someone who is watching out for them.

#6 Emotional detachment: Immerse, recognise, step away.

#7 Embrace aging - why be envious when you've already been there; only people with unsatisfied and unfulfilled lives wanna go back...

#8 Money is not a substitute for tenderness. Status  will get you nowhere. Only an open heart will allow you to float equally between everyone.

#9 Be fully present at every moment.

#10 Marriage, you get tested. You find out who you are, who the other person is, and how you accomodate  or don't. Respect, compromise, be open and uphold a common set of values. 

#11 Build your own sub-culture.

#12 Forgive others. And yourself, for the things you know you should but didn't do.

#13 Deathe ends a life, not a relationship. The perfect day = a simple, average day...

#14 Say Good-bye.